How to lick a pussy – tips on cunnilingus

Cunnilingus, i.e. oral stimulation, or in simple terms the mutual “licking” of pussies, is for me one of the most erotic and hottest things two women can experience together!

Unfortunately, however, I often find that women react very insecurely to the topic of “licking” or even think that they don’t like it. If you then ask why, they usually say that they are very unsure because of the smell and taste, which always baffles me.
Since I meanwhile have a lot of experience in licking pussies, I can only say that I have not experienced a single pussy (with two exceptions, which I will come to in a moment) that smelled or tasted unpleasant or even disgusting. On the contrary, most women smell and taste surprisingly good “down there” and both the smell of an aroused pussy and its taste have a very eroticizing effect on me (I guess, because of the pheromones). And I’m pretty sure it will be no different for you.

So you shouldn’t worry too much about it and just give it a try. Once you’ve “tasted” your girlfriend’s pussy for the first time, I’m pretty sure you can’t get enough of it! And as far as your own pussy is concerned, you shouldn’t worry and leave it up to your partner to decide whether she likes licking you or not 😉

The prerequisite for this is, of course, that a minimum level of hygiene is practiced, but hopefully that goes without saying.
As already mentioned, I have so far experienced two exceptions where a strong, unpleasant “fishy” smell and taste was actually noticeable. In both cases, however, it turned out a short time later, that the cause was vaginitis (vaginal infection). Once this had been treated successfully, the unpleasant smell and taste disappeared. So if you or your partner actually notice an unpleasant odor, I would strongly advise you to see a doctor.

But under no circumstances should this stop you from giving it a try, because once you’ve licked your partner to an orgasm for the first time, you’ll understand why I’m so enthusiastic about it!

To make sure that your first time really is a great experience for both of you, I’ve put together a few tips for you on what you should look out for.

But before I start, I’d like to do two little experiments with you:

1st experiment: try sticking your tongue out as far as possible for at least 2 minutes!
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Well, did you last 2 minutes?
As you have probably noticed, sticking out your tongue hurts quite quickly.

2nd experiment: Lie on your stomach in a short distance in front of the TV and try to watch the program without supporting your head with your hands or arms.
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So, how long did you last this time?
As you might have noticed, your neck starts to hurt after a short time or you don’t even have the strength to hold your head up in this position any longer.

But why these experiments?
It’s simple: imagine you’re lying on your stomach on the bed between your partner’s spread legs, her wet, shiny pussy is right in front of you and you’re eager to lick out her pussy with passion.
Sounds nice, doesn’t it?
But in practice, you’ll probably notice after just a few minutes that not only your tongue but also your neck starts to hurt like hell.

So my first tips are all about how you can avoid exactly that:

The easiest thing to prevent is the pain in your neck or throat. This is caused by having to hold your head backwards/upwards. The best way to avoid this, or at least “mitigate” it, is to adopt a position in which you don’t have to stretch your neck quite so far.

If you are lying on your stomach between her legs, you could, for example, place a few pillows or similar under her bottom so that her pelvis is higher up. Firstly, this will allow you to support yourself on your elbows, which will straighten your upper body and reduce the need to stretch your neck. Secondly, her pussy will stick up a little more so that you can point your head down a lot more, which also prevents you from having to overstretch your neck too much.

Of course, you won’t have any problems with your neck, if you choose a position where you don’t have to stretch your neck at all.
For example, if you kneel in front of the bed and she slides to the edge of the bed so that you can lick her in a kneeling position. She can either let her legs hang over the edge of the bed, bend them and put her feet on the bed or place them over your shoulders or your back.
Of course, the same works great on a couch or armchair or at the edge of a swimming pool, etc. 😉

Then there is another position that offers even more advantages: We are talking about so-called “facesitting”. This means that you lie on your back and your partner kneels over your head so that she can lower her pussy onto your mouth. It’s best to place one or two pillows under your head so that she doesn’t have to spread her legs too much. In this quite comfortable position, you can then lick her “from below”. The additional advantage of this position is that your partner is able to ‘control’ how and where she is licked by moving her pelvis. This even goes so far, that you only have to stick out your tongue without moving and she does the rest by rubbing her pussy over your tongue.

The problem of your tongue hurting relatively quickly is a little more difficult to avoid. First of all, you’ll find that the further you stick your tongue out, the quicker and more it will hurt. So my tip would be to only stick it out as far as it is just above your teeth or lower lip. In this position, you can hold your tongue relatively relaxed for a long time without it starting to hurt. If you then open your mouth wide, you can still lick through her delicious pussy with a big part of your tongue.
You should also avoid moving your tongue too much, as “tonguing” also causes pain relatively quickly.
You can avoid this by simply moving your whole head instead of your tongue. If your tongue is relaxed on your lower lip, as described above, you can also use your lower jaw to make licking movements up and down by simply closing your mouth a little further and opening it again.
Of course, it’s a good idea to varying this technique from time to time and sticking your tongue out a little further or moving it a little more, etc. As soon as your tongue starts to hurt again, you can use the technique mentioned above to let it “relax” a little without having to interrupt the licking.
And of course, you can also replace your tongue with your fingers, a vibrator etc. from time to time so that your tongue gets a well-deserved break.

That brings us to the next tip:
Use your hands or your fingers in combination with your tongue (unless you need them to pleasure yourself at the same time).
For example, while you play around her clitoris with your tongue, you can penetrate her vagina with your fingers at the same time. Or you can do it the other way round and lick her vagina while you play with her clitoris with your fingers at the same time.
Depending on your position (and the length of your arms), you could also use your hands to massage her breasts and play with her nipples while pleasuring her with your tongue. (I must admit, however, that it’s not easy to concentrate on both at the same time).

Let’s move on to the question of what exactly you should do with your tongue while you’re licking her.
In my experience, the famous “ABC” game (where you lick all the letters of the alphabet with your tongue) is more likely to lead to laughter than giving her an orgasm.
Instead, try to remember what you particularly like when you’re being licked and then simply try it out on her. For example lick around her clit, lick up and down her pussy lips or suck on them. Penetrate her with your tongue or give her clit a tiny “blow job”. Be creative, but in general, always pay close attention to her reactions! If you do something with your tongue and she presses her lap harder against your mouth or her breathing suddenly quickens or she starts moaning louder, then you’re obviously doing something right. Don’t stop, keep doing it until she either climaxes or you notice that her positive reactions are fading, then you should try something new again.

The clitoris is of course super sensitive and the easiest to stimulate. Many women can only reach a climax, by stimulating her clitoris.
If her clitoris is “hidden” under her labia, it can be helpful if you place your fingers to the left and right of her outer labia and pull her labia apart slightly upwards with your fingers, so that her labia opens wider and you can reach her clitoris more easily with your tongue.
However, for some women, licking directly over her clitoris is simply too much and causes more pain than pleasure. This is particularly often the case if she has already had one or even several orgasms shortly beforehand.
If you then touch her oversensitive clitoris directly, she will usually react with a strong twitch (and may then push your head away from her).
If this happens, you should avoid touching her clitoris directly, especially after an orgasm. Instead, you could carefully lick around it or focus more on her vagina, perineum and/or anus (depending on your preference).

Finally, I would like to give you what is probably the most important tip:
Communicate with each other!!!
If you’re not sure whether she likes something or not, just ask her!
A quick “Do you like that?” or “Does that feel good?” and you’ll know.
Or vice versa: If your partner says, for example, “Yes, just like that!” or “Yes, that feels good!” you know exactly what you have to do!
I would recommend, to agree before you have sex that you’ll give each other tips on what you like and what you don’t like. That way, you’ll both learn very quickly how you can best satisfy each other.

With a little practice, the right position (see above) and effective communication, you’ll soon be able to pleasure each other orally for a long time and lick each other from orgasm to orgasm.
And believe me, seeing and feeling her cumming while you lick her is one of the hottest things on this planet!!!